(It was.)

That restraining order was never granted, and fully dismissed.

My college ex-girlfriend and I ended up reconciling and eventually ended our relationship on good terms.

Devin Strader on ‘The Bachelorette’

Devin Strader on ‘The Bachelorette’.Disney/John Fleenor

This was the first time I ever fell in love and I learned a lot from our relationship.

It was a growing experience for both of us," Strader wrote.

In reality, however, Strader’s ex-girlfriend did have a restraining order taken out against him.

Jenn Tran and Devin Strader on ‘The Bachelorette’ finale

Jenn Tran and Devin Strader on ‘The Bachelorette’ finale.ABC

(Entertainment Weeklyhas obtained copies of both orders, which are in the public record.)

It was also agreed upon that each party would pay half of the court costs."

As exhaustive as our vetting process is, this protective order did not surface in our searches."

[This article has been updated with a statement from Strader’s attorney.]