But Ireallynever thought I would get divorced.
They married in 2018 and welcomed a son in 2022.
Not a girl’s girl."

Lilly Jay; Ariana Grande and Ethan Slater.Credit:Amy Sussman/WWD/Penske Media via Getty; Michelle Yeoh/Instagram
She added, “My family is just collateral damage.”
Grande and Gomezfinalized their divorcethis past March, while Slater and Jayfinalized their divorcein September.
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Ethan Slater and Lilly Jay in 2018.Mark Sagliocco/WireImage
In her essay for the Cut, Jay does not name or express bitterness toward Grande or Slater.
“While our partnership has changed, our parenthood has not.
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Representatives for Slater didn’t immediately respond toEntertainment Weekly’s request for comment on Jay’s essay.
A representative for Grande declined to comment.
Jay also discusses how her personal life has bled into her work.
I was never meant to be fully known to them.”
For Jay, becoming something of a public figure has brought considerable challenges.